Monday, May 30, 2011

Over Thinking

Over thinking is something we all do from time to time, but does it hinder you? In horse therapy and equine courses, maybe people tend to over think they tasks they are given, which can lead to anger or frustration. Maybe a therapist will ask the client to "halter the horse", well the client might get mad because they wont know what a halter is or they just over think it and want to do things "right". How do you keep yourself from over thinking?

"I was looking up something in Professor Sonja Lyubomirsky’s excellent book, The How of Happiness, and I came across an interesting passage. (I’d marked it, so clearly I’d read it before, but I didn’t remember it well.)

"Many of us believe that when we feel down, we should try to focus inwardly and evaluate our feelings and our situation in order to attain self-insight and find solutions that might ultimately resolve our problems and relieve unhappiness. Susan Nolen-Hoeksema, I, and others have compiled a great deal of evidence challenging this assumption. Numerous studies over the past two decades have shown that to the contrary, overthinking ushers in a host of adverse consequences: It sustains or worsens sadness, fosters negatively biased thinking, impairs a person’s ability to solve problems, saps motivation, and interferes with concentration and initiative. Moreover, although people have a strong sense that they are gaining insight into themselves and their problems during their ruminations, this is rarely the case. What they do gain is a distorted, pessimistic perspective on their lives."

One of the tensions within happiness — at least for me — is the tension between constructive attempts at greater self-knowledge and pointless rumination.

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Once I started paying more attention to my habits of thinking, I began to do a better job of refraining from overthinking. When I find myself thinking in circles, I find an area of refuge, say, or I re-read one of my favorite works of children's literature — my favorite emotional comfort food. Or, if it’s nightime, I go to bed early. Things really do look better after a good night’s sleep, and often something that had me agitated the night before seems much less worrisome the next morning.

Have you found any helpful strategies to keep yourself from overthinking?"

Source: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2011/05/26/do-you-fall-into-the-trap-of...

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Friday, May 27, 2011

Getting Rid of Teenage Depression

You might be younger and reading this, and I'm glad if you are because here are some things you can do when you get a bad case of the blues. Of course in my opinion I would reccomend anyone to spend some time in horse therapy, equine courses, or just to be around a horse. Heres some other options...

"1. Get the Right Diagnosis

In his book, Adolescent Depression, Francis Mark Mondimore, M.D, a psychiatrist at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine, compares getting the right diagnosis of a mood disorder to discovering a piece of real-estate in a prime location. In other words, swap the phrase “location, location, location” with “diagnosis, diagnosis, diagnosis” because it is my far the most important factor in trying to get help for your mood disorder. A proper diagnosis is the foundation upon which a treatment program is built, so if you’re starting with the wrong one, your attempts at getting well are severely jeopardized.

2. Find the Right Doctor or Therapist

The second most important thing you can do is to find the right doctor and the right therapist for you. Don’t settle. If there is any question in your mind, then go for a second opinion. I can’t stress this point enough because I am convinced I would never have gotten well had I stayed with any of the doctors I visited before finding the right one for me. It’s takes energy, effort, and time. But so does depression and anxiety—they can rob you years of your life. If your psychiatrist or therapist is threatened by your seeking a second opinion, that’s all the more reason to shop elsewhere, because a good doctor will welcome another objective opinion and appreciate the homework done on your behalf. You may only need your doctor for a few months or a year, but it’s good to think long term anyway. Would you feel comfortable seeing this person for a few years? If not, go elsewhere.

3. Notice the Negative Thoughts

Can you hear your negative talking? “I’m a failure.” “I should give up.” “He hates me.” These thoughts manipulate our feelings, so that what begins as a negative thought ultimately leads to real symptoms of depression and anxiety. However, the good news is that by merely recognizing them, we’ve won half the battle. Dr. David Burns lists ten forms of distorted thinking in his bestseller, Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy. Among them are all-or-nothing thinking (“There is nothing useful about this class”), overgeneralization (“It’s ALL bad”), jumping to conclusions (“They think I’m a loser”), and “should” statements (“I should have learned it by now”).

4. Outsmart the Brain

In her insightful book, Freeing Your Child From Negative Thinking,Tamar Chansky explains how, with some exercising, you can outsmart your brain. She explains:

The brain has two sides, which respond to very different input. When we are afraid or confronted with a negative situation, circuits in our right prefrontal cortex are firing away, whereas in more positive situations the action is in the left brain. The left prefrontal cortex is active when there is something safe to approach, whereas when the right side is buzzing, as with anxiety or negative thoughts, we avoid or don’t approach. The goal is to create passageways, a bridge over troubled water … to travel from one side of the brain to the other. The more [you] practice switching perspectives, the more automatic that action will become, and overtime, [the] brain will learn to switch on its own.

5. Eat Mood Boosters

Just as certain foods and drinks can lead to depression — processed white flour, sweets, caffeine, sodas — others actually lift your mood. Many studies have shown that omega-3 fatty acids are mood lifting agents that can alleviate depression. Some foods that are rich in omega-3: oily fish like salmon, mackerel and sardines; ground flaxseeds, walnuts, and omega-3 fortified eggs. Vitamin B 12 and Folate are also important for mood. Some scientists believe that these vitamins create serotonin, which normalizes mood. Vitamin D also increases serotonin and can be especially helpful with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). Milk and soy milk are full of Vitamin D as are egg yolks and fish with bones.

6. Quit the Booze

There is one beverage that you must absolutely stay clear of: booze. Not only is it going to worsen your depression and anxiety, but it can actually alter your brain during the teenage years, making needless work for you later on in life. Mondimore writes:

Substance abuse in young people is thought to interfere with the brain’s developmental process and may disrupt brain development in permanent ways that, currently, we can only guess at… For individuals undergoing treatment for mood disorders, getting intoxicated interferes with the therapeutic process to relieve depression or to stabilize mood. A simple way of thinking about this is that getting intoxicated depletes the chemicals thatantidepressants are trying to boost.

7. Sweat

Working out your distress quite literally — by running, swimming, walking, or kick-boxing — is going to give you immediate relief. On a physiological level. Because exercise increases the activity of serotonin and/or norepinehrine and stimulates brain chemicals that foster growth of nerve cells. In fact, some recent studies have suggested that regular exercise can be just as effective as antidepressants to lift a mood. And emotionally. Because by wearing a stylish sweat suit and sneakers we become the sergeant with a whistle, taking charge of our health and giving orders to our mind and body, even if our limbic system, tummies, and thighs are in sorry shape and curse us for forcing them to move or do a sit-up.

8. Ask For Help

The smartest thing I ever did in high school was ask for help from a kind teacher that I respected. This first step began a path of recovery for me that changed my life. Sometimes it’s easier to approach someone outside your family because a parent wants to believe everything is fine and might not be able to face real problems. I urge you to get the help you need by asking an adult that you know won’t judge you but will find the appropriate resources."

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Thursday, May 19, 2011

Horse Abandonment

It's horrible to hear of those stories that involve horse abandonment. In horse therapy and equine courses we treat horses with respect as we do with humans. I think everyone should have that kind of respect for all types of animals. Heres the story..

"Two California men have been arrested in connection with the abandonment of a 20-year-old Thoroughbred horse.

John Welsh, public information chief for the Riverside County, Calif. Department of Animal Services, said Riverside Police Department personnel discovered the animal on May 13 near the Hidden Valley Nature Center in Riverside after a tipster reported seeing two men on horseback leading a third horse behind them. The men then rode out of the area, leaving the third horse behind.

Read the unlikely story of a woman who quit her Washington, D.C., area office job to open the racehorse placement program LOPE in Beyond the Homestretch.

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"The horse has a lot of bumps and bruises, is blind in its right eye, and appears to be underweight," Welsh said.

The horse is now under Department of Animal Services care, Welsh said.

Riverside Police Department spokesman Lt. Guy Toussaint said Juan Jose Hidalgo Rodarte and Cresenciano Castro Reyes were arrested on charges of suspicion of felony animal cruelty and conspiracy to abandon a horse. Both men were transported to the Robert Presley Detention Center. Each was held on $5,000 bond."

Source: http://www.thehorse.com/viewarticle.aspx?ID=18263&source=rss&utm_sour...

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Monday, May 16, 2011

Music Beats Depression

This article is a great example of how music can help you beat depression. In horse therapy and equine courses, we are always finding new ways to beat things like depression. Not only does music help you get rid of the blues, but its also a very rare natural therapist...

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"Caught in a terrible conundrum of whether I should break my diet over New York Super Fudge Chunk or Chunky Monkey at Ben and Jerry’s yesterday, I was reading the different fliers pinned to the community bulletin board inside this 200 square feet of ice-cream heaven.

One flier read: “Got the blues? Learn to play them!”

I don’t know whether to blame the kids or my depression for my stupidity (the death of my brain cells in the prefrontal cortex), but I had to read these seven words four times (that’s 28 words) before I understood the message, which is an important one:

Music can help treat depression.

Back before my Prozac and Zoloft days, music was my sole therapy. I pounded out Rachmaninoff’s “Prelude to C Sharp Minor” as a way of processing my parents’ hostile divorce. My hour or more a day at the upright piano in the family room of my childhood home became a sanctuary of sorts for me. I practiced scales, cadences, and arpeggios until they were perfect, because rhythm — that sweet pattern between sound and silence — was something that I could control with the tip of my fingers. Emotion was translated into melody as I played the ivory and ebony keys, sometimes closing my eyes.

During the worst months of my depression, I blared the sound track of “The Phantom of the Opera.” Pretending to be the phantom with a cape and a mask, I twirled around our living room, swinging David and Katherine in my arms. I belted out every word of “The Music of the Night,” which I had learned to play on the piano for my stepdad as his birthday present one year (It is one of his favorites, too).

“Softly, deftly, music shall caress you,
Feel it, hear it, secretly possess you . . .”

The gorgeous song — like all good music — could stroke that tender place within me that words couldn’t get to.

Everything with a beat moves my spirit. Even Yanni, with his long hair blowing in the wind (I saw a video once… and the image unfortunately stuck). But especially the classics. I can’t get enough of Bach, Beethoven, and Mozart, because I think so much better when these guys are playing in the background. (Consequently almost everything I publish has been written under their influence.)

And apparently I’m not alone. Because the website of the American Music Therapy Association lists 57 pages of research articles chronicling the successful use of music to help treat a host of different illnesses, including depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and chronic pain."

Source: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2011/05/13/using-music-to-relieve-depre...

 

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Friday, May 13, 2011

Animal Adopter ID

This is a great bill to hear being passed in New York for horse therapy and owners alike. Those who work in equine courses or in animal shelters know that animal abuse can be high sometimes. This bill is an attempt to try and remove these abusers from getting their hands on another animal!

"Breeders and rescue operators in Suffolk County, N.Y., would be required to consult the Suffolk County Animal Abuser Registry before releasing an animal to a prospective new owner under a bill passed by the Suffolk County Legislature on May 10.

Last year, Suffolk County lawmakers passed a law establishing the Animal Abuse Registry, an online database of convicted animal abusers in that county. That law requires convicted animal cruelty offenders age 18 years or older to provide their names--including aliases--addresses, and a photograph to the registry within five days of release from jail, or five days after their conviction; offender information will remain in the database for five years.

A companion bill passed this week requires animal shelter operators, breeders, and pet store operators to screen the identification information provided by all prospective animal adopters or buyers against information contained in the animal abuser database.

Those who knowingly sell, offer, deliver, or provide an animal to anyone registered on the animal abuser registry could face penalties of $500 in fines for the first offense, $1,000 in fines for a second offense, and $1,500 in fines for a third or any other subsequent offense.

Suffolk County SPCA Director Roy Gross said the bill is another tool to prevent animals from being placed with known abusers.

"You're never going to stop every person who should not have an animal from getting one, but this bill will certainly make a big difference," Gross said.

Paul Perillie, legislative aide to bill sponsor Leg. Jon Cooper, said the bill could become law within 30 days: "County Executive Steve Levy has 30 days to act on the bill. If he does not act, it becomes a pocket approval.""

Source: http://www.thehorse.com/viewarticle.aspx?ID=18233&source=rss&utm_sour...

 

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Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Giving Praise

Giving praise to people and even animals is something highly practiced in horse therapy and equine courses. There are no instructions, it's all about the client feeling they have accomplished a task, then praise will come with the completion of that task. The same with horses, they recieve praise after doing tasks as well! Heres 7 tips to giving praise in any aspect of your life...

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  1. "Be specific. Vague praise doesn’t make much of an impression.

     

  2. Find a way to praise sincerely and realistically. It’s a rare situation where you can’t identify something that you honestly find praiseworthy.
  3. Never offer praise and ask for a favor in the same conversation. It makes the praise seem like a set-up.
  4. Look for something less obvious to praise – a more obscure accomplishment or quality that a person hasn’t heard praised many times before.
  5. Don’t hesitate to praise people who get a lot of praise already. I’ve noticed that even people who get constant praise – or perhaps especially people who get constant praise – crave praise. Is this because praiseworthy people are often insecure? Or does getting praise lead to a need for more praise? I’m not sure, but it seems often to be the case.
  6. Praise people behind their backs. The praised person usually hears about the praise, and behind-the-back praise seems more sincere than face-to-face praise.
  7. Beware when a person asks for your honest opinion. This is often a clue that they’re seeking reassurance, not candor.


Praise is gratifying to the person getting praised, of course, but it also boosts the happiness of the praiser — at least I’ve found that true of myself. Because the way we feel is very much influenced by the way we act, by acting in a way that shows appreciation, discernment, and thoughtfulness, we make ourselves feel more appreciative, discerning, and thoughtful. And that boosts happiness.

Have you thought of any other good ways for giving people deserved praise?"

Source:http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2011/05/10/7-tips-for-giving-effective-praise/

 

 

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Thursday, May 5, 2011

Equine Research Review

A new equine research review is out from UC Davis! Even if you arent in horse therapy or equine courses this can be very interesting, check it out below...

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"The Center for Equine Health at the University of California, Davis (UC Davis), has released its 2010 Equine Research Review. The Research Review is a publication released annually that chronicles the horse-health related research that took place at UC Davis during the 2010 calendar year.

Explore the power of the human-horse connection as you travel the emotional journey that veterinarians at Rood and Riddle Equine Hospital and owners embark on when a beloved horse becomes ill in Equine ER

In addition to reporting on new discoveries and advancements in equine science, the Research Review also relays which recently funded studies will be taking place in the near future at UC Davis.

The Research Review is available online as an e-zine or as a PDF download.

More information is available on the UC Davis Center for Equine Health website."

Source:http://www.thehorse.com/viewarticle.aspx?ID=18193&source=rss&utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+TheHorse%2FNews+%28TheHorse.com+-+News%29

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